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EDDIE LONG SAGA – WHAT ABOUT THE VICTIMS?

26 Jun

By Terry Loving

New American Standard Bible (©1995)
Vindicate me, O God, and plead my case against an ungodly nation; O deliver me from the deceitful and unjust man!

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Concerning this Eddie Long/Creflo Dollar saga, there is one thing that screams volumes – and very few are catching it. There is much said concerning false prophets, pedophiles, spiritual immorality and more – and yet – not much attention is flowing towards the four young men – groomed from boyhood – deceived by “Daddy Long” – sexually abused, and damaged for life. Why is that? Like many others, I expressed my disdain for both Long and Dollar, but now, I want to dedicate this post to the forgotten.

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There are numerous Christians who will go to war to defend these two “anointed men of God.” Cough, cough – excuse me, almost got chocked there. The spiritual spotlight should shine brightly upon these charlatans, but the Balm of Gilead must be applied to the wounded. Too many have suffered church and pastor abuse, and they are quickly forgotten as if the sins were theirs and theirs alone. In the movie, BLISS – a young girl was raped, and her family decided to kill her because she didn’t name her rapist. Her fear was founded, for it was a family member that raped her. Nonetheless, the rape was labeled as “her sin.” Her family and the whole village turned against her – she became an outcast. Why when a woman is raped, the crime has to be “her sin?” Why are those who are victimized raped again by public and familial opinions? I just don’t get that.

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Reading the statements in defense of Long and Creflo made me shudder. How could any rational, intelligent child of God defend these two? I find the lack of empathy for the four young men betrayed by Eddie Long – among others – horrendous. Let’s check out some of these “un-altered”comments concerning Eddie Long and his crony:

“That’s why i said “if he did commit the error” we have no reason to prove he did, but just in case he did, there’s no sin God can’t forgive.”

“To all that are criticizing this man with these religious web names remember what the bible says. He that is without sin let him cast the first stone. Bishop Eddie Long has not been convicted yet. Where is the love and the Heart of God. We as believers are so fast to judge instead of praying first to hear what God has to say. No i don’t condone sin especially when it is a leader,but remember we are flesh and blood and we all need deliverance from something. There is always room to grow. So people of the most high God pray, pray, and pray hard this could be you or someone close that you know and look up to. Pray 4 his members and his family instead of judging”

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“There’s no sin God can’t forgive.”

“Good Biblical teaching with a firm hand” is what created this mess, and continues to destroy lives.”

“We have to wait to confirm if he did it. And if he did, there is room, for repentance. Isn’t it?”

“innocent til proven guilty.  He without sin. Any kind of sin. Pray for him.”

“I am praying for Long because either way “when you see your brother at fault, go restore such a one and pray for him.”

“The bible says you will know my people by their fruits. I have known Eddie for years since 1995. He is an amazing human being.  He has done more for this community then any other single person I can name. The people he helps on a daily basis is amazing. Unless you know this man stop talking and sit back and watch God at work. Eddie must go through this trial just like Job; and just like Job he will come out bigger and better than before. This process is weeding out the true and the fakes.”

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“Do you have any proof he did it?”

“Does it matter what he says? He only owes God and the courts an explanation. As far as I know he has yet to be convicted and in this country “we are presumed innocent ……not guilty until all facts are in. Besides my Bible says “let he who is without sin cast the first stone!” If you were accused I am certain you would like the same courtesy!”

“The preacher in the city here, he still gon’ go to Heaven. He’s cleansed; he’s alright. And if you from that church that you know I’m talking about and you trying to join here, I don’t want you to join here. You need to go and join where you ‘spose to be.” (Creflo)

“PLEASE BE CAREFUL PUTTING YOUR MOUTH ON PASTOR’S OR GOD’S ANOINTED… NONE OF US ARE QUALIFIED TO JUSGE (Judge) – ANY MAN WALKING THIS EARTH…”

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“I Think that he may have tried to show these young men a different side other than poverty and they turned it on him. Even if what they said is true there is a bigger picture that people are missing. There is a better way to get to the truth other than putting it out like they did, this world is already lacking faith and the people that are young in their faith my have lost it and now these young men will be held responsible for the souls lost because of this. Question, hat ever happened to innoccent til proven guilty!!!”

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“Its is wrong to condemn and judge him (Bishop) but he should admit his guilt and let the congregration pray for him and embrace him once again as their leader.”

“Those young men better realize what they are doing; first of all they will go to jail for false accusations if they are lying for whatever the reason and then the Bible say’s “touch not my annointed and do my prophet know harm!” So all stand to be punished in some way if they have deceived the other in any way…”

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“I understand what Dr.Dollar is doing.Any mature Christian also knows, he has scripture to back him up. The man is staying in the love of God walking in love, love covers a multtitude of sins and staying out of judgement.Judgement is darkness and what he is telling those people if they are leaving out of offense and strife he does not want that mess in his church.If the Lord has told them to leave Bishop Longs church then fine, but the man is keeping himself in the light LOVE.He is doing exactly what Jesus would do and say, Let him who has not sin cast the first stone. That woman looked up and there was no one standing there but she and Jesus.Deal with your sin leave Bishop Long and Dr.Dollar to God be wise to do so.”

“I couldn’t tell you if he is, or if he isn’t, but what I can say is we all believe what we want to believe whether it’s innocent or guilty, God in “His own wisdom will reveal in His timing”. Until God says, I’m believing my pastor- who said he didn’t do this.”

“I feel its between Him and God….If those four guys took the money and ran so be it, God knows!!! How far do they think will get…….”

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THESE TWO I LIKED THE MOST

“Ultimately, however, I am not so very much concerned with what started the mess–sexuality–or what will fix the mess–good biblical teaching or whatever–but that an abuser is allowed a position of authority of a group of people to continue preying on them. It’s like sending a battered wife back to her husband. Just wrong on every level.”

“I find it funny that people are treating him as though he is the pitiable party. What about the children? If it is true, how many more are out there, afraid to speak up because of people like you? You know, those who won’t believe them. Those who try to put this shield of protection over a grown man, while children remain vulnerable. That is why sexual abuse victims rarely speak out. They become the attacked, yet again.”

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It is my sincere hope that the four victims will use some of their riches to seek counseling. Obviously, they may need to seek help from secular agencies, as the church does not seem to understand what really happened to them. Many will view their settlement reward as a source of healing, but the money is just a band-aid. Children who are sinned against carry an unspeakable burden for the rest of their lives. No amount of money will heal the hole in their souls.

With the exception of the two comments that I like, most seem to view Long as the victim – and those who were hurt by Long – well, if they hadn’t come forth with exposure, then the sheep could have comfortably worshipped Eddie Long – but now many are spiritual nomads.

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One commenter stated …”now these young men will be held responsible for the souls lost because of this.” Huh???

OK, so let me get this straight. If they had not exposed Eddie Long for the sexual predator that he is, would all be well in Christendom? More specifically, would all have been well at New Birth – or any church where these monsters are and should be exposed? Silence is the biggest sin Christians will have to answer for.

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Many victims of rape, incest, domestic violence and abuse take their pain to their graves. And in most cases, who can blame them? Why expose yourself to ridicule and being victimized all over again? Too many people want to hide the ugly side of life, and act like it doesn’t exist. That is the main cause of our churches failing our communities, not these young men who spoke out and sought justice. The Black community especially is guilty of turning a blind eye to sins against the vulnerable, instead of speaking out and protecting those Jesus died for. He died for all mankind, not just the pulpit pimps that are sexually exploiting, and messing up your kids.

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To the four brave souls that exposed Eddie Long – I commend you. Please get some help with sorting out the confusion within your souls – and pray to God that you do not in turn become the hunter. I cannot tell you what to do with our wealth, but understand that things will not bring you comfort. When you are alone with yourself, you will still face the giants that seek to destroy you. Evil does not leave you alone.

To all of the misguided Christians that defend Long and his pal Creflo – may God open your spiritual eyes to see the truth. You have been blinded by your devotion to your pastors, and you will give an account to God someday. To those who clapped when Creflo insulted the people of God, you will reap what you have sown. Imagine how those hurting sheep felt when you joined your pastor in condemning their actions – shame on all of you. Please read the Bible for yourselves.

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To the courageous souls that “expose the deeds of darkness,” don’t stop. This is our duty, our God given right and we should clearly understand that we are at war with the forces of evil – wickedness in high places. Jesus already won the battle, but the fight isn’t over yet.

Peace

LET US NOT FORGET THEIR NAMES

Jamal Paris

JAMAL’S BLOG – a work in progress so please bookmark.

MY STOLEN INNOCENCE

Anthony Flagg

Maurice Robinson

Spencer LeGrande

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Why didn’t Jamal just tell Long to stop what he was doing? Because, Jamal says, “you’re afraid to lose your father. You’re afraid that if you tell him ‘No,’ the support that he gives to yourself … the fact that you finally have a father that you always wanted for and always dreamed of, will just walk away from you if you don’t give him what you want. So you end up turning into something you never thought you’d be.”

And: “You have to understand, this man manipulated us from childhood. This was our father and we loved him. This man turned his back on us when he had no more need for us. That’s not a father. That’s a predator. … [Long] is not a man, [he is] a monster.”

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UPDATE:

Bishop Eddie Long Had Fifth Accuser in Sexual Misconduct Lawsuit

“Centino Kemp – Sources say Kemp joined in the settlement talks after he heard about the other young men’s lawsuits and though he never sued, he became a part of the final settlement.

“One source says Centino Kemp, who was raised in the Bahamas, met Bishop Eddie Long years ago during a visit to New Birth while he was a teenage student in a Florida college. The relationship meant enough for him to tattoo Eddie Long’s name on his wrist, followed by the words, “Never a Mistake, Always a Lesson.

FOX 5 I-Team exclusive report

Updated: Wednesday, 27 Jul 2011, 9:12 PM EDT
Published : Wednesday, 27 Jul 2011, 5:58 PM EDT

I-Team Preview: Bishop Eddie Long Lawsuit – The Untold Story

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Eddie Long’s ‘Wildchild’ gets paid for being bad

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Bishop Eddie Long, and New Birth Loyalists…

“Yes congregation, I blame you. You don’t worship God, you worship a self-loathing gay man.  Own it New Birth.”

“Five different men have come forward with intimate sexual details. Accept it like the sun coming up in the morning. That Brother is gay.”

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Charges dropped against Eddie Long burglary suspect

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I-Team: Fifth Bishop Eddie Long Accuser Speaks

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CHRISTIAN CHURCH – JUDGE OR NOT TO JUDGE

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CAN WE REALLY BLAME FALSE PROPHETS?

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LITHONIA: Eddie Long’s wife pushing divorce petition through

Long’s petition added that there was “no hope of reconciliation of the parties” and that it was “in the best interest of all parties concerned that this marriage be terminated.”  

She asked for “temporary and permanent alimony,” “an equitable division of the marital property” and “separate, non-marital property.”

In a statement issued hours earlier Friday morning, Vanessa Long said:

After a great deal of deliberation and prayer, I have decided to terminate my marriage to Bishop Eddie L. Long. Accordingly, I authorized my attorneys to file for divorce on December 1, 2011.

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Eddie Long taking time off from US megachurch

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Atlanta named to list of ‘kinkiest’ places in America

“According to Alternet, Atlanta is the fifth “kinkiest” town in the United States, and according to the list, it is a place that can show anyone who wants to find something on the seamier side of life can find what they want – and based on information Alternet points to, plenty of people in Atlanta are looking.”

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“It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.”

Psalm 118:8

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BISHOP EDDIE LONG MUST GO!

A COPY OF THE LETTER THAT PROTESTORS ARE HANDING OUT

http://www.pimppreacher.com/Bishop-Eddie-Long-Steps-Down.html

PimpPreacher.com 12/04/2011

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Megachurch’s future uncertain after pastor leaves

“Marshall said the church can be healed, but also thinks Long needs to step down permanently.”

“All things can be renewed, but I think he needs to leave,” she said. “Why continue to lead people when you are being dishonest? It shames the church, it shames the followers, and it shames him.”

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Accuser in Bishop Eddie Long Sex Scandal Pens Tell-All Book, Screenplay

Centino Kemp, the fifth accuser in the Bishop Eddie Long sex scandal, has written a book about his affair with the megachurch pastor, titling the work The First Lady. The book is co-authored by T. Benson Glover.

He describes the book as a story of “love, lust, power, extravagant living and travel, betrayal, deceit, rape, down-low homosexual lifestyle, molestation, church corruption, secret societies, suicide attempts and religion.”

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Bishop Eddie Long’s Alleged Sex Scandal Victim Centino Kemp Reveals Suicide Attempt

Kemp said his alter-ego called “Wild Child Kemp” saved his life by convincing the young man to stay alive, when Kemp attempted to commit suicide three weeks after lawsuits against Long were filed in Atlanta.

He was admitted to the DeKalb Mental Health Center, Fox 5 reports. He reportedly told therapists he had been “sexually and physically abused for six years by Pastor E. Long.”

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Eddie Long’s New Birth Christian Academy Closes Down

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Eddie Long’s Wife Calls Off Divorce

 Updated: Friday, 17 Feb 2012, 6:03 PM EST
Published : Friday, 17 Feb 2012, 4:42 PM EST

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Bishop Eddie Long Accuser Centino Kemp To Release Tell-All Book

Centino Kemp, the fifth accuser who came forward in the Bishop Eddie Long sex scandal of alleged affairs with teen boys nearly three years ago, will release a tell-all book on Valentine’s Day, according to the Georgia Voice.   2013

Centino First Lady Book

First Lady     (CLICK ON LINK TO GO TO AMAZON TO REVIEW BOOK)

Bishop Eddie Long dies of aggressive form of cancer, church says

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New details released for Bishop Eddie Long memorial service

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Posted by on June 26, 2011 in WOLVES IN SHEEPS CLOTHING

 

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7 responses to “EDDIE LONG SAGA – WHAT ABOUT THE VICTIMS?

  1. Jerry

    June 26, 2011 at 10:14 am

    Outstanding piece — thank you

     
    • ssofdv

      June 26, 2011 at 10:29 am

      Hello Jerry,

      You are welcome! Thank you for your positive feedback. Please feel free to stop by again.

      Terry

       

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